Relationship counseling, by chat

Talk it through with a counselor who gets it

Marriage tension, wedding nerves, mixed signals or a hard goodbye. Message a counselor the way you text a friend and get warm, practical guidance in minutes, any time of day.

No sign-up to start · Text, photos or voice notes · Available 24/7

We keep having the same fight about chores and I don't know how to bring it up without it blowing up.9:41

That sounds exhausting, and it makes sense you want to get this right. When the fight starts, what do you most wish your partner understood?9:41

How it works

Three taps and you're talking. No forms, no waiting room.

  1. Choose a man or a woman

    Start with whoever you'd feel most comfortable opening up to.

  2. Pick your counselor

    Marriage, engagement, dating or separation: each counselor focuses on one part of love.

  3. Chat like WhatsApp

    Type it out, send a photo or record a voice note. Replies arrive in seconds.

Meet your counselors

Four men and four women, each focused on one stage of a relationship.

  • Mateo Ramírez

    Marriage counselor

  • Santiago Herrera

    Engagement & pre-wedding counselor

  • Diego Castillo

    Dating & new relationships counselor

  • Alejandro Morales

    Separation & divorce counselor

  • Valentina Torres

    Marriage counselor

  • Camila Ortega

    Engagement & pre-wedding counselor

  • Sofía Navarro

    Dating & new relationships counselor

  • Isabella Fuentes

    Separation & divorce counselor

Simple pricing

Start with 5 free messages. Keep going when it helps.

$20/month

  • Unlimited chats with all 8 counselors
  • Photos and voice notes
  • Private to your account and available 24/7
  • Cancel anytime
Start your free trial

Questions, answered honestly

Is this private?

Your conversations are private to your account and are never shared or sold. Our team can review conversations for quality and safety. You can start without giving your name or email, so you decide how much to share, and messages are processed by our AI provider to write each reply.

Is it a real person?

No. Botus counselors are AI counselors trained to listen and give practical relationship guidance. If you are in danger, contact local emergency services.

What can I share?

Text, photos (like a screenshot of a message you're unsure about) and voice notes when it's easier to talk than type. Videos aren't supported.

How does the free trial work?

You get 5 free messages with no sign-up. After that, create an account and subscribe for $20/month to keep chatting with every counselor. Cancel anytime.